Thursday, November 3, 2016

Koblenz 3rd of November 2016

Well, it's been a long time since i write something. seems the habit of writing disappeared with all the major changes in my life. It's time to get back and tell stories again. short or long, deep or even just shallow stories.

I will challenge myself to write one post a day for two weeks and starting again from there. There are a lot to tell...from the backpacking in vietnam to cambodia, from the first time to fall in love again after so many years of feeling empty, from the chaotic wedding preparation, from crazy official paper works in both Indonesian and German part, from the hardest saying good bye to my beloved family and my cute niece and nephew, from the first two weeks life as confused housewife, and more and more....

Its a total change indeed, hard but i know i can make it, especially with the man that i love, i trust, i make vow to live with.

To start the active blog, a beautiful song from James Arthur, Say you won't let go

I met you in the dark
You lit me up
You made me feel as though
I was enough
We danced the night away
We drank too much
I held your hair back when
You were throwing up

Then you smiled over your shoulder
For a minute, I was stone cold sober
I pulled you closer to my chest
And you asked me to stay over
I said, I already told ya
I think that you should get some rest

I knew I loved you then
But you'd never know
Cause I played it cool
When I was scared of letting go
I know I needed you
But I never showed
But I wanna stay with you
Until we're grey and old
Just say you won't let go
Just say you won't let go

I'm so in love with you
And I hope you know
Darling your love is more
than its worth in gold
We've come so far my dear
Look how we've grown
And I wanna stay with you
Until we're grey and old
Just say you won't let go
Just say you won't let go

I wanna live with you
Even when we're ghosts
Cause you were always there for me
When I needed you most

I'm gonna love you till
My lungs give out
I promise till death we part
Like in our vows...


Thursday, March 17, 2016

A bay of descending dragons, Ha Long Bay


When my brain refused to work on my project, writing is the only switch button and way to keep my insanity. I guess I will just use this hibernating moment to write something that I promised long time ago (and make it up with my project tonight when I got some inspiration).

This time about a Bay of Descending Dragons, Ha Long Bay


“Have fun in Ha Long Bay”

Huong opened the door of her apartment.

Typical Cruise Boat
Carefully I gave a kiss to her sweet 1 year old girl that she carried in her hand. Huong’s apartment was my sanctuary in Hanoi, in between my trips. She was so generous to let me stay and treat me as her new family.


I tried to walk as fast as I can fighting the January Cold in Hanoi. I saw the minivan that will take me about 170 km to a very famous spot in Vietnam, Ha Long Bay, as soon as I reached the end of the aisle from Huong’s apartment.

There were already group of people that will share the tour with me. After a few chit chats, I found out that most of my groups came from the UK. But there were Emilio, a guy with a camera from the Philippines. It was easy for him to impress me with all his travels. Somehow, it inspired me. Thanks Emilio.


View from TITOP Island
As soon as we reached the Ha Long City, we were transferred to a nice boat. There were rows of bedrooms in the lower deck, communal place (for karaoke and restaurant) in the medium level, and open space with many lounge chairs for sun bathing (well, of course it would not happen during my visit due to wrong season) at the upper deck.


Cruising along the famous sea in between 2000 islets gave me different perspective. At first, I only could see the arrogant tall limestones behind the mist. Seems so far, mysterious and unreachable. But as we cruised closer through the mist, the arrogant tall limestones became the prettiest stars that standing proudly in the sea. It gave me a very warm feeling admiring the power that placed those beautiful stones. 


Warewolf game ended up with terrible Hangover
At some points of the tour, we had a chance to jump off the boat and hiked the highest peak of one of the island, TITOP Island, explored the surprised cave, Hang Sun Sot, and kayaked around the floating village. The activities bounded the group so well. We spent the rest of the evening dancing to a “Ganggam Style”, singing karaoke with our silly voices and playing “Warewolf” game. At the end of the each game, the one who was losing, should take a strong mix of alcohol shoot. And oh Boy, he had a terrible hangover the next day. Poor guy!


Enjoying the dawn
The next morning, when everyone was sleeping, I got myself to the upper level. The sun was not yet shining. I closed my eyes and mindfully moved my body to some cycles of Sun Salutation. I breathed to the tranquillity and peaceful moment. I didn’t know how long I sat there watching to the layers of mist slowly disappeared along with the coming of the warm and yet shy sun.
  

The best thing were, this journey to  a mystical nights in between 2000 islets, this journey to a World's new 7 wonders and one of UNESCO World Heritage Site rejuvenated me. I was indeed need a good holiday.

Now your turn to find your way to this magical place.

Some more pictures:

Typical room
Kayaking

The surprised cave

TITOP Point


Hangout at the upper deck




 

Sunday, March 6, 2016

The Ethereal Clouds of SA PA

It was indeed way too long for me to write about this trip. But hand notes, pictures, facebook post helped me to collect the memories and write about this post.  Slowly, when I decided to write about this, my brain started to collect all the information to the point that I can remember some important details. The trip was so memorable after all. I call it “The ETHEREAL clouds of SAPA’

Stranded in Hanoi

It was 6 am when I reached Nội Bài International airport in Hanoi. I felt terribly tired and sleepy after 6 hours stopped over in Kuala Lumpur. Since I was traveling with a tight budget, The only budget flight that I got from Bali to Hanoi was only with Air Asia which unfortunately offered a very long stop over. There was I waiting and sleeping at the super freezing KLCC. Good thing was a Vietnamese friend warned me to bring enough warm clothes as January known as cold and windy season in the North of Vietnam. I never imagined that I would use them earlier in the warm Kuala Lumpur and yet freezing airport.

Looking out to the distance
Anyways, I safely landed in Nội Bài International airport and found my way to the GA HANOI, the railway station in Hanoi to get the train ticket to Lao Chai. Struggling with the language, I found myself crammed in to the locals in front of a small counter where they sold the ticket to Lao Chai where I can continue my trip to SAPA. Perhaps because they mistakenly thought that I am a Vietnamese, they allowed me to queue to buy the ticket in that counter with a very reasonable local price. I wasn’t surprise to learn that there are different building where they sell train tickets for tourist which of course with different (higher) price. I considered myself lucky.

I paid for 560.000 DONG for a comfortable sleeper train. I was happy except that the train only started off by 8 pm. It means I would be stranded again for more than 12 hours. I asked my brain to quickly decide what to do when I was eventually free from the crowd.  I checked my only map and found out the center for backpackers is not that far from the station that I could walk for less than 30 minutes. Off I went there and of course with some dramas of getting lost Instead of 30 minutes, it took me almost one hour to get to Hanoi’s Old Quarter where all bars, hotels, backpacker hostels are located.  Quickly I screened hostels and backpacking guesthouse. I badly needed a shower and a space to just crushed on. Hanoi Backpackers hostel it is. With only 5 USD ( in 2013, could be more now), one bed on a 6 beds dorm was mine. My world was slowly getting better.

The town behind the mist
Paddy Rice Fields
Long story short, after recuperated from the hassle and stranding story, I reached SAPA the next morning. The ride with sleeper train was comfortable. I was surprise to found clean linens in my berth. I used the 10 hours ride from Hanoi to Lao Chai the nearest train station to SAPA with a beautiful sleep. I geared up myself as soon I stepped off from the train as the cold brutally slapped my face. I followed the crowed with backpacks assuming they would also travelling to SAPA which was a good decision I made. Together with the crowed, I hopped on a minivan to continue another 45 minutes road trip to town SAPA itself.

As far as I could see, it was only a mist. I narrowed my eyes, focusing at searching for the name of the hostels that I book from Jakarta. My hostel situated in a center of the town. With only 25 USD per night I could get a private room with all utilities that I needed including heater blanket.
After a few chit-chat with the owner of the hostel, it turned out I could change my reservation to the next day if I followed the trekking group that she organized. It was a 1N/2D trekking in the valley of SAPA. Of course, I did it.

There was I with  other fellow backpackers, Mathew, Vianey, Jessica and Greg guided by Zuong, a nice girl from the Black H’mong Tribe. We walked from 9 am to 5 pm passing through small muddy path and the beds of the rice fields. Often we fell down for it was so slippery and ended up having mud all over our body. We had fun on each other and couldn’t stop laughing. What a trip! The view itself was tremendous and sophisticated. As far as I could see lies the huge (never seen like that before in Indonesia) paddy rice terraced fields. From time to time we passed the ethnic minorities like Black H’mong and Red Dao women. It felt different when you are being expose to a total different culture. I felt lucky.
Accomodation in the village
After 20 km walked, we stopped at one simple Hmong house to rest and sleep for a night. Nothing was special with our accommodation BUT Its simplicity. Experiencing how the ethnic minority live for only one night with a very basic facilities There are matrass lied close to each other at the second floor where people were gathered (cooking, eating, or just simply chatting) at the first floor. Togetherness continued still, the smell of food being cooked from the open kitchen, the warmth of the house owner, and a simple fireplace that they placed in the middle of the house was really inviting me to stay downstairs. We shared stories, we made jokes, and we laugh. Of course with the help of very bitter and strong rice wine helped us all to feel at ease.

The next day, we continue our trekking program towards the town. We passed several beautiful waterfalls and more paddy rice fields. Tiring and content at the same time, we finished the program in the afternoon and ended up in one nice bar drinking warm wine.

Everything was completely different in Town. The town was still hidden by its mist. I couldn’t see the valley as clouds perfectly covered them. But this place is indeed special.

And oh, my story of this trip has been published at detik. travel too, writing in Bahasa Indonesia was indeed easier for me..here is the link

Some more pictures:

Hmong Woman
Our Next Generation

fire place to keep us warm
Sweet Souvenir

behind the mist

Traditional Market


View of Pansipan mountain from my room



Stay tune for the story of The descendent of a dragon in Halong Bay